Wedded Bliss Wednesday

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So I vowed (hehe) to start blogging after the wedding. & here it is the Wednesday after and I haven't.. so when I saw this link-up "Wedded Bliss Wednesdays" I thought I would jump on the opportunity. So here it goes:

If you could give one piece of advice to any married (or soon-to-be married) couple, what would it be?     
   Okay so being that I have been married for just roughly over 3 days, I am not going to pretend like I am any sort of expert. So my advice would be to soon-to-be-married couples & it would be about the wedding day & festivities reaching up to it. SOAK IT ALL IN! Take lots of pictures. Try not to stress. & Smile. It seriously is over before you know it. I know a million people will tell you that. & they are so right. I couldn't believe how fast my night went. & things went wrong (nothing major, but little things here and there) & I wanted to have a meltdown, but it so didn't matter. I just smiled and enjoyed everything that went right.
            
What is the #1 no-no in a marriage?
    Again, I am not an expert, but something that D (the husband) and I have decided to do is take divorce off the table.  It's not something either one of us should be able to just throw around in a time of frustration. It's just not an option. We both need to remember to take our vows very seriously. In the good times and the bad we are worth it.

What is the biggest lesson you have learned from your marriage?
    It takes two. You now this is something I have learned more from dating, but I am sure it pertains to marriage as well. You have to both want it, both be willing to work for it, and both be putting in 110%. It won't always be easy, everything won't always feel like a honeymoon & that's when you have to go back to the good times and remember why you two said "I do".


Well thanks for reading. I am hoping my posts get a little more interesting in the upcoming days/weeks. I am still new to this, so bare with me :)


HAVE A GREAT DAY :)
 

T Minus 19 days!

Ahh I am going to be a married woman in 19 days. I am beyond ready for this day to be here.

Now don't get confused, that doesn't mean that I have every everything ready, because I most certainly do not. What I meant is that I am ready to have everything ready and be enjoying my day.

 

Things I Need To Do:

 

Get all bowls for candy buffet

Get candy for candy buffet

Ring Bear Pillow

Gifts for flower girl, jr. bridesmaid, and ring bears

Get the bling all shine up :)

Card Box

Candle Holders for fireplace mantle

Trial for hair and make-up(you would think I would have this done since I work in a salon)

 

Uhh.. I think that is it? Maybe? Hopefully.

 

Okay! Ready, Set, Let's GO!

About Me:

 

Name: Kayla

 

Occupation: Stylist (of hair) :)

 

 

Birthday: May 2

 

Favorite Color: purple, turquoise, & black (it's a hairstylist thing)

 

Favorite food: ANYTHING MEXICAN that's my vice :)

 

Children: no, just 3 fur babies

 

Relationship Status: Almost married, less than a month now

 

Where do you live: Indiana, say what you want but I love this place. Cornfields and all.

 

Goals: To be a good wife, decorate my house (we've lived here for a year and almost nothing is done, damn wedding), start cooking atleast 5 times a week, start running (ugh I hate running, but I want to love it), keep in better contact with some friends I've lost touch with..

 

 

 

Hmm.. that's all I have for now. Hopefully I will find some more to write soon.

 

I'll leave you with some pictures.

 

Well I wanted to leave you with pictures? But for some reason it won't let me upload them?

ughhh.

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Okay so I am trying to link up to put myself out there. I am not sure if I am doing it right, I actually am computer illiterate. Hopefully I will get better.

Here goes nothing.

This Weeks Questions:

1. 5 items you can't live without on a daily basis(water, food, shelter, and clothes dont count)

Definitely my iPhone, lipstick, my hair products, my iPad, andddd probably my debit card.

 

2. All time favorite book? Hmm.. alltime favorite book? Well I have a lot of favorites. To Kill A Mockingbird, Where the Red Fern Grows, Heaven is For Real, & The Help .. just to name a few :)

 

3. Something you'd like to accomplish before the end of 2012

 

Well my number one goal is to make it through this wedding madness! Then I would love to start exploring photography a little more, feel a little more comfortable blogging, decorate my house, pay down some bills & plan a vacation for d  and i :)

 .. I better get started ;)

 

4. If you could go back and relive any year of your life which year would it be?

 

Hmmm.. that's a hard one. There are bits and pieces I would like to get back from a lot of years. But as far as reliving one, I don't think so.

This past 1.5 years have been the best so far.

 

5. What do you wish people knew about you without you having to tell them?

 

That just because I am definitely sarcastic does not mean I am a bitch.

 

Hmm.. well there you are! That wasn't so painful.

Hope you enjoy

3 weeks 6 days. 3 weeks 6 days. I am getting married in 3 weeks and 6 days. AHHH I am freaking out. Am I ready for this? Is this a normal feeling to not knowt if you are ready? Is it normal to be completely on edge? I hope so because these are all things that I am feeling. Poor fiance, he gets the brunt of all of my frustration and anxiety. & he takes it so well. Which almost even annoys me more. He just can't win. I am so looking forward to the big day & so looking forward to it being OVER! Not that I am not so excited, I am just ready to think about something other than the wedding. Like our poor, neglected home that we purchased a year ago and have yet to decorate. My three furbabies who get no love an attention. Or having money to spend on something other than wedding. AHHH!

 

It's almost here. Bring it on!

 

 

wedding.. wedding.. wedding wedding wedding. It's all that's on my mind, it's all I can think about. It's all I spend money on.. AHH and I am just over it! Don't get me wrong, I am more than excited to marry my fiance. & I am also oh so excited for the wedding day. I am just ready for the stress to be over. I am ready to be done paying for it. I am ready to quit worrying about it. I am just ready to enjoy all of my hard work (well sorta). I am tired of thinking of all the things I should be doing to prepare for the day. I only have 81 days. I can do this just breathe. 

Okay, so since I have the worst memory ever and I am getting ready to embark on the most exciting time in my life, I've decided I should give this blog thing a try again. In 87 days I am getting married! Freaking out, is a little bit of an understatement! So perhaps this blog will be a place where I could vent, take out my frustrations (instead of on the future hubby) & document this exciting time in my life, so when it's all over I can look back and remember. 

Here we are! How cute is he? This is from our engagement session. 

So here goes nothing! A look into my life. Hopefully some day I will have a follower! Hehe

xoxo kj!